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First dates are fun and a great introduction to an even better relationship. Sometimes, things can go wrong and other times, things can be perfect - it just takes a little instruction and a bit of balance.
There are some general rules to making a first date successful. After all, first impressions mean a lot. First-date etiquette is something everyone should be educated about.
No one should ever honk his or her car horn when waiting for a date to come out. If you're trying to be polite or win brownie points, go inside and get your date. It's nice and says something about your character if you do that. A phone call letting him or her know you're there will work but it's definitely nothing to brag about.
When eating dinner, it's not OK to take out your cell phone and text, let alone pick up a call - unless it's your mom. Dinner usually lasts about an hour, and I'm sure the person who is calling you can wait. If you're going to a movie afterward, check your phone in between.
Keeping conversation moving is key to a good date. There are no helpful hints when it comes to that - you either have it or you don't. This is when you can tell if the chemistry is there.
The person who asks to go on a date should be the one paying. It can get awkward when the bill comes out if the person paying isn't known. Guys, if you are trying to court her, definitely pay. If the date was a mutual idea between mutual friends, split the bill. But these rules should be universal - this way, there aren't uncomfortable looks when the bill appears.
So many girls worry about what they order on dates. News flash - guys want you to order what you want and they expect you to eat a normal-size dinner. If you order a bowl of pasta and only eat a bite because you aren't hungry that's one thing, but if you are worried about looking like a pig, stop worrying. If I were paying for your meal, I would feel like my money was wasted. Guys aren't judging you nor do they think you're fat, so eat and enjoy.
There are some foods to stay away from on your date. These include any Mexican foods, corn on the cob, ribs and anything with garlic. Who wants a goodnight kiss after that? For the end-of-the-night kiss, it's perfectly classy to share a little lip-lock after a pleasant evening. There is only one exception to this - if you don't plan on going on a second date, don't kiss. Leading people on is completely unfair. If you're lucky enough to get a kiss at the end of the evening, that says the person is into you. If you aren't looking for anything more than the rendezvous that just happened, then don't smooch your date.
On first dates, a first impression is key and so is dressing appropriately. Beauty is pain but when it comes to a first date, being comfortable is more important. In addition, confidence is hot, so sit up straight and back up your words with your actions.
Just remember, first dates have the potential to be awkward, but being light-hearted can cure a case of the embarrassments.
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